The reason that a break up occurs is because one or both partners in the relationship decide that the relationship is no longer working. This is when at least one partner does not want to remain in the relationship anymore, and if you are the one who wants the relationship to continue, you could have a tough road ahead.

While fixing a break up is no easy task, you should know that it can be done. Almost everybody you know would have at least one’ break-up and back again’ story that they’d know of.

If you want your ex-partner back it is important that you get ready to take a good look at yourself. There is obviously something in you that your partner could no longer stand (therefore the break up). If it’s something you’ve done in the past and something that can’t be undone, make sure that you express your genuine and heartfelt apologies and try to convince your ex-partner that you have changed your ways.

However, don’t just say it for the sake of saying it, and then not implement it. If you do manage to get back, your partner will eventually see that you’re lying and you’d be back to where you started from, alone.

Have you ever analyzed your relationship with your partner? If yes then you might have observed that in many cases your partner just uses you for solving his one purpose or the other. This makes you shattered. Actually it is true that the relationship does not only mean being dependent on each other for sex, money or for that matter security it means sharing a true part of your self.

If you have a partner who is just using you for his benefits without caring about your needs them its time you realize that you are a mere servant for him. In such cases it becomes important to know the signs of a user which are as follows:

• Just wants physical satisfaction: if your partner only comes to you for sex then it clearly indicates that you are being used as a “sex toy” for him. This kind of a person will have many sex partners. So better beware.

• Wants financial security: this kind of a person is fully dependent on you for all his/her expenses. Even though they themselves earn they will always want you to pay for everything. They will ask you to pay their bills.

Remember if your partner is one of the above kinds then it’s not too late to call quits as it is better to be alone than have such partners who just want you to serve their purpose.

Flirting is most of the time done by men but it does not mean a girl should not flirt. Flirting is fun and when a women tries to flirt it is hard to find whether she is or she is not. So if you have no clue about how to flirt there are few tips given below, this will help you solve this. Most of the men won’t be able to understand the signal from women.

Understand what your need is and then convey it to men. Make sure that you don’t convey any wrong signals. Make sure you dress properly. The lipstick should be darker than your usual shade,  so that the heads will turn at you in the room.  Instead of using your gruff voice make sure you talk more sensuously which will be liked by all men. The best way to flirt with him is to make the first move, more than 95 percent of the men like when you make a first move. Not only that it will show men how confidant you are. Make sure you are the centre of attraction. It also depends on the color of dress you wear. Go for light color shades like pink and peach which will get along most skin types and makes them more approachable. If you go for a red color dress it attracts two different types of men, men who are interested in power full women and men who are interested in sex. to become a flirt one needs to flirt with men you like. Flirting is full of joy and it should be practiced whenever possible, with a bus driver, waiter in the restaurant. Flirting is fun ad through practice you will become an expert. Most of all be yourself don’t pretend and act as if your are flirting.