There are scores of men & women alike who consider flirting to be an innocent way to kill time. However, there are many others who view as a means to get closer to members of the opposite sex in looking for something, and this could very well be sex.

Whether, flirting is innocent or not depends on the person who is indulging in it. If your intentions while flirting are innocent, and if you know that you will never step beyond the line dividing innocent and not, then you don’t have anything to worry about. On the other hand, if your flirting is done with ulterior motives, then the least you can do is carry protection.

If you are married and you still like to indulge in a little flirting, it is important that you let your spouse know about this as it would come to the fore sooner or later. Also, if you think that your flirting is getting beyond the innocent stage, it is time to stop. You should know that many extra marital affairs are results of one or both of the involved partners having indulged in some heavy duty flirting.

When your flirting starts to acquire sexual undertones, your are standing on the brink of trouble.

Flirting is most of the time done by men but it does not mean a girl should not flirt. Flirting is fun and when a women tries to flirt it is hard to find whether she is or she is not. So if you have no clue about how to flirt there are few tips given below, this will help you solve this. Most of the men won’t be able to understand the signal from women.

Understand what your need is and then convey it to men. Make sure that you don’t convey any wrong signals. Make sure you dress properly. The lipstick should be darker than your usual shade,  so that the heads will turn at you in the room.  Instead of using your gruff voice make sure you talk more sensuously which will be liked by all men. The best way to flirt with him is to make the first move, more than 95 percent of the men like when you make a first move. Not only that it will show men how confidant you are. Make sure you are the centre of attraction. It also depends on the color of dress you wear. Go for light color shades like pink and peach which will get along most skin types and makes them more approachable. If you go for a red color dress it attracts two different types of men, men who are interested in power full women and men who are interested in sex. to become a flirt one needs to flirt with men you like. Flirting is full of joy and it should be practiced whenever possible, with a bus driver, waiter in the restaurant. Flirting is fun ad through practice you will become an expert. Most of all be yourself don’t pretend and act as if your are flirting.